Requirements for Parents
Important Requirements for Parents: Seminar for Separating Parents ("COPE" Class) and Mediation
Working through co-parenting and visitation issues can be one of the most difficult things for parents to handle when they go their separate ways. Family Court has two programs available to help parents deal with these issues. A seminar is required for all parents who are separating, and Family Mediation Center services are required for parents who cannot work out their own custody agreement. Read on for more information about both.
WARNING!Do not bring your children to court with you, do not talk about the court case with your children, and do not show them any papers about the case. The court rules do not allow children to participate in any part of your court case unless the judge orders it.
Seminar for Separating Parents ("COPE" Class)
When parents separate, children often have a hard time adjusting. To help lessen the impact on the children, the Court requires separating parents to attend a co-parenting seminar, sometimes called the "COPE" class.
Both parents must take the class at some point before the court case is finished and file a certificate of completion with the court. Usually, the judge will not sign a final order until both parents have taken the class.
For more information about the class, schedule, costs, and the Court-approved class providers, please visit Seminar for Separating Parents.
The court may waive the class requirement for good cause. You can fill out and submit the following form to ask the court to waive the class requirement.
Family Mediation Center
Parents must try mediation if they cannot work out a custody and visitation schedule on their own. The Family Mediation Center can help parents try to work out a plan for legal custody, physical custody, a weekly visitation schedule, a summer schedule, a holiday schedule, and vacation time.
Judges will usually refer you and the other parent to the Family Mediation Center if custody and visitation issues are in dispute. You can also request a referral to the Family Mediation Center if you have a case filed at family court. You can use the following form to ask your judge to refer you to mediation:
If there is a history of child abuse or domestic violence, the judge may waive the mediation requirement. You can use the following forms to ask the judge to waive mediation in your case.
For more information about the Family Mediation Center and the mediation process, please visit Family Mediation Center.